This might seem like a strange and random topic, but it came to me in a quiet moment between work tasks and packing boxes for an upcoming move. One of those thoughts that shows up when your brain is stretched in two directions and suddenly decides to latch onto something entirely different.
There’s something about a good backpack. It’s not just gear, it’s your daily companion. For me, the hunt started years ago. I’ve always been drawn to good gear, especially the kind that fits into a working, moving lifestyle. Back when I was doing photography full time, I needed a bag that could hold a camera, lenses, maybe a laptop, plus the bits that come with all of that. But I didn’t want a traditional camera bag. I wanted a backpack that happened to work for cameras. And that’s where the search began.
I went through all the usual stages, the messenger bag era, the minimalist phase, the overengineered tactical bags, even the boutique designer ones. Each had something missing. One looked great but couldn’t hold enough. Another fit everything but turned into a saggy mess when half-empty. Some just didn’t sit right on my back. And that matters when you’re 1.96m tall.
Over time, I started to get clearer about what I actually needed. Enough room for my laptop, camera, headphones, cables, chargers, a book or two. It had to work as hand luggage, but also for everyday carry. It had to be comfortable whether full or empty. And it had to look good, not flashy, just good. The kind of good that doesn’t date.
I started noticing something else too: travel was the real test. It’s when you’re moving through airports, cities, guesthouses and taxis that your bag either helps or hinders. It’s when you start noticing which zips are annoying and which straps dig into your shoulders. Which bags make you feel like a traveller and which make you feel like you’re carrying your entire life awkwardly through the world.
I tried all the research methods. Forums, videos, Reddit deep dives, gearhead blogs. And still, I kept finding myself halfway happy. Until I stopped listening to what everyone else was recommending and focused on what I actually needed.
The surprise? The one that nailed it was a big brand. Oakley. The Oakley 34L Kitchen Sink Backpack in Stealth Black. All the space I need. Tough as hell. Surprisingly comfortable. Looks like it means business. And fits me just right.
It was love at first carry. I remember packing it for a trip and just thinking, finally. Finally I’m not fighting with my bag. It’s just doing its job.
And over time, I started to realise it wasn’t just about finding the right backpack. It was about how I move through life. I carry a lot with me, tools, ideas, projects, sometimes actual gear, and I like to be ready. That bag mirrors that mindset. It's a small piece of order in a world that’s often messy.
I think most people settle too soon. They go with what’s good enough, what’s in stock, what got good reviews. But good enough wears thin. The right thing, when you find it, lasts longer, works better, and feels like it’s part of you. You don’t notice it. You just get on with life.
And that’s why finding the right backpack matters. It’s not about the bag. It’s about what you carry and how you carry it. It’s about making life simpler, not harder. And when you find the right one, you’ll know
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So enjoyed your post! I was actually out backpack shopping with my son the other day—he’s also super specific about what he wants. I always joke with my family about how much time and energy we spend just moving our stuff around… but you’re right, it’s not really about the backpack. It’s about how these things quietly make life a little easier, a little better.
Also, congrats on starting these Substack notes—I really relate to your take on the world. Keep them coming!